The chances that your guy is himself around you is pretty slim. The reason for that is the actual self is reserved for a few privileged guys who are also called “BHAI!” more often than not. These ‘bhai’ are their bros for life and know better to judge them and so is the not-a-care in the world attitude. His words to you and to others Vs. the ones to his bros.
Here are some laws that are extremely weird, you need to check right now.