What would you do if you ever found out that your partner is unfaithful? Getting your heart broken by someone you’ve loved with all your heart and soul is the most painful thing ever.
Of all the stupid things that humans do, cheating in a relationship definitely tops the list. It may not kill your relationship but will definitely crack the foundation. Both men and women have been disloyal to their partners and not all of them are guilty of that.
While many countries consider adultery as a crime, there are couples who are a firm believer of tit-for-tat ideology!
1. “I got a text from her… it’s a picture of a sonogram of our child.
A Reddit user shared the most ‘unwanted’ story, “Was in a five-year relationship with my girlfriend at the time. I started to talk to an old coworker from my teens that I always had a thing for, but she lived a couple states away so I knew nothing would come of it. Well, it turns out that she still had family in my area and regularly visited.
We made plans to get some dinner and catch up, for old times’ sake. It ended in both of us getting drunk, renting a hotel room and having some fun. This happened a few times over the next several months until I get a text from her… it’s a picture of a sonogram of our child.
I was going to come clean to my girlfriend because I never had a father growing up and I didn’t want to put my child through that. However, she ending up losing it a month or so into the pregnancy and we stopped talking.
It left me feeling very guilty and anxiety stricken. 0/10 would not do again.”
2. “We kissed a few times and hooked up once, but he was starting to see this other girl, so it never went further than that.”
Shared another Reddit user, “A few years ago, I met this amazing guy. Let’s call him Guy A. Fell very much in love with him, he was so kind and sweet. We kissed a few times and hooked up once, but he was starting to see this other girl, so it never went further than that. I was pretty heartbroken over it.
Fast forward a few years. I’m a year and a half into this horrible relationship. We’ll call him Sh*thead. Sh*thead is a compulsive liar, yells at me, threatens to break up every time I do something he doesn’t like, like whenever I had a panic attack.”
“I’m at a concert without Sh*thead and I look across the dance floor, and I see Guy A, dancing his heart out, laughing and just being amazing. Hadn’t seen him since the time we hooked up, which was a few years ago. My heart skipped a beat. I approached him, we talked for hours, and I told him I was living with a really shitty guy and that I wanted out. When he kissed me goodbye, I just knew.
I continued the relationship with my Sh*thead for about a week (while still seeing the other guy on the side) before I finally worked up the courage to break up with him. I’ve been with Guy A ever since, and haven’t looked back once.”
3. “Turns out he had done this before, many many times and they were not separated or considering divorce as they are Muslim.”
As shared by heartbroken Reddit user, “I once began a relationship with a guy from work who was separated from his wife. Then she found out and contacted me. Turns out he had done this before, many, many times and they were not separated or considering divorce as they are Muslim.”
“They weren’t close emotionally or sleeping in the same bed but they were very much officially together. I felt f*cking awful, I’d fallen so hard for this guy. His wife was absolutely amazing, a truly wonderful person. I’m a piece of sh*t for what I did to her. They’re still together as far as I know.”
4. “Soon I found myself happier with her friend and I started wanting to spend more time with her than with my girlfriend.”
“I feel like I have no excuses to offer for the reason I cheated on my girlfriend. I was 18 at the time and had been with my girlfriend for three months, and during that time I became close to one of her other friends. Soon I found myself happier with her friend and I started wanting to spend more time with her than with my girlfriend.
The reason why I chethatstead of breaking up with my girlfriend was that they were friends for a long time and I didn’t want to be the reason as to why their friendship ended. In addition to this, I didn’t want her to look like a ‘slut’ who just moves in on her friend’s boyfriend. Overall it seemed like a tricky situation for both of us but we were young and didn’t know how to navigate the situation properly,” shared a Reddit user.
“I decided to go cheat as well.”
“He cheated on me, things weren’t going great. I decided to go cheat as well. It took no time before we opened the relationship and things have been better in terms of that since,” as shared by a Reddit user.
5. “My wife begged me to try and work it out, go into couple’s counseling, and started having sex with me every day.”
“I was 40, had been married 10+ years and had a couple of kids. Our marriage had turned into something that made me really unhappy. We barely had sex and our connection seemed completely gone. We fought a lot and it was always me who needed to apologize and compromise.
I met a woman 15 years younger at the office. We started flirting and it turned into an intense emotional affair that lasted about a month. I fell deeply in love with her and decided I should really divorce my wife, since I was so unhappy. I told my wife about the other woman and that I wanted to divorce,” shared a Reddit user.
6. “”My wife begged me to try and work it out, go into couple’s counselling, and started having sex with me every day. “
“My wife begged me to try and work it out, go into couple’s counselling, and started having sex with me every day. I stayed and agreed to take three months to see if we could work it out. It was incredibly hard, but we eventually did feel like we overcame it, and we’re still together,” a Reddit user said.
7. “His wife shows up and they end up in a screaming match.”
According to another Reddit user, “I was the mistress in a marriage. The guy was an old boyfriend from high school, we dated off and on. When we were off he would date this other girl, and when we broke up for the final time he went and married her. Almost a year after we broke up, I was back in town on summer break from college and ran into him at my summer job.
He gave me this sob story about how Kelly wanted a divorce and was taking his kid from him. I (stupidly) believed him, we exchanged numbers, started talking daily. He invited me over to ‘his’ apartment, showed me his divorce papers, and ultimately things got sexual for a couple weeks.
One day I swung by to pick up a pair of earrings I’d forgotten the day before. His best friend from high school answered the door.”
8. “I asked if Guy was around, a best friend said no why would he? Turned out Guy was actually house-sitting for a best friend, it wasn’t his apartment.”
“I asked if Guy was around, the best friend said no why would he? Turned out Guy was actually house-sitting for best friend, it wasn’t his apartment. Best friend also informed me that Guy and his wife were in the process of BUYING A HOUSE, their marriage was fine.
I was livid and disgusted. I went to work the following day, and in walks his wife. I ask her what she’s doing later that night and if she’s available to talk. We meet up after I get off and I lay it all out for her. She teared up a bit, but ultimately she was pissed. She gives me their address and tells me to show up there unannounced the next day.
I do and Guy is white as a sheet trying to get me to leave. His wife shows up and they end up in a screaming match. So Guy ended up getting divorced and settled with a chunk of child support because his wife informed the right people about Guy’s pot plants. None of us talk anymore. When I think about it, I have to shower at least twice,” shared a Reddit user.
9. “I declined at first but we had sex. Then again, and again.”
As per a Reddit user, “I was the other guy in a two-plus year-long affair. She was married and still is. No happy ending for me at least. Former work associates, we’d hung out a few times and just watched TV/movies, smoked, drank but nothing happened for a long time. I had an emotional and physical attraction to her, and the feeling was mutual. But we never crossed a line.
One time at a party she got too drunk and since I was her ride, we both stayed there, in a spare bed together.”
“Honestly, I wanted the intimacy of being close to somebody, and I wanted to make sure she didn’t get sick in her sleep. I didn’t do anything, and neither did she. Nothing happened that night.
10. We hung out a week or so later, and she said she had liked my beard rubbing against her, and then asked me to do it again. This progressed over days to more intimately cuddling, grinding, groping and finally I kissed her. It was awesome.
Making out progressed to oral then she really wanted to have sex one night. I declined at first (really) but we had sex. Then again, and again.”
11. “I declined at first but we had sex. Then again, and again.”
As per a Reddit user, “I was the other guy in a two-plus year-long affair. She was married and still is. No happy ending for me at least. Former work associates, we’d hung out a few times and just watched TV/movies, smoked, drank but nothing happened for a long time. I had an emotional and physical attraction to her, and the feeling was mutual. But we never crossed a line.
One time at a party she got too drunk and since I was her ride, we both stayed there, in a spare bed together.”
12. Honestly, I wanted the intimacy of being close to somebody, and I wanted to make sure she didn’t get sick in her sleep. I didn’t do anything, and neither did she. Nothing happened that night.
We hung out a week or so later, and she said she had liked my beard rubbing against her, and then asked me to do it again. This progressed over days to more intimately cuddling, grinding, groping and finally I kissed her. It was awesome.
Making out progressed to oral then she really wanted to have sex one night. I declined at first (really) but we had sex. Then again, and again.”
