Writer David Tumarinson beautifully describes what happens during an intimate embrace.
“When a man silently comes up from behind and hugs a woman, He closes a circle. His and her circle. This is a circle of tenderness, warmth, and protection. And he places a woman right into the middle of this passionate circle. He thereby unintentionally shows that in this particular moment, she is the center of his universe. A man is holding a woman in silence. A woman is staying silent, too. She feels the warm currents emanating from these hot and peaceful hands.
“When a man hugs a woman, She feels like she has wings, and she can fly. This circle of love is calm and cosy. This silent tenderness makes her melt like a sugar cube in a cup of tea. Who is she now, standing in the center of his smouldering circle?
«What does she feel? Who is she in this moment?
«Is she a woman, or a girl? Does she feel loved, or is she doing the loving? Does a light blanket of silence cover the woman’s shoulders and hide her thoughts from the man…or maybe nothing is hidden in this private circle? After all, he’s just holding her, protecting her from the outside world that is so cold and lonely. But in his arms it is warm and comfy. These arms are her protection and tranquillity. It is everything a woman unknowingly looks for, waits for and hopes for…»
Hug your lady more often. Place her in the centre of your circle. Cherish your lady by showing her how tender and sensual your love can be. Just love her — she craves it, just as you do.